Joy



While we were in the diagnostic process, I posted something from the Rolling Stones "Time Waits for No One" on my Facebook. It was :



Drink in your summers/Gather your Corn/The dreams of the nighttime vanish by dawn.
It's not sad or negative, it's a call to live!
It's amazing how much time we can spend worrying, procrastinating, self-denying, you name it. None of us have that kind of time! Go live!


These past few weeks have been so freeing in an unexpected way. We "got a stopwatch" (we always had one,  it's just closer now) and right now we ask what it is we want to do, to experience, to be in any given moment. Not what others expect. Not what we "should" do.

I am not saying abandon all sense of responsibility, but dammit if your life lacks joy, your life lacks and you need to find that joy.

We are, we will keep doing so in every day that we have.

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